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Day 56 on which someone else compliments me on weight I haven't lost



Something weird is happening. 

I have not, overall, lost one single pound since starting #100DaysofHealth.

I’ve tended to hang around the same weight, give or take a few pounds, depending mostly, I think, on my alcohol and salt intake.

It’s been SO consistent, in fact, that I’ve wondered whether it’s my weight set point and whether I’m more or less doomed to stay here forever.

Because even though #100daysofhealth wasn’t supposed to be about weight loss but about living in as healthy a way as I could, mentally and physically, I have to confess that I assumed that I’d lose 20 or 30 pounds as a side effect. But nope, I’ve been bouncing around this same weight for months now.
At the same time, several people—none of whom I know to be the type who just randomly compliment—have asked me what I’ve been doing to lose weight. I’ve taken to telling them, “I’m not losing weight. I’m just reallocating it”.

I really wish I’d gotten a BMI reading back at the beginning of all of this, because the only thing I can figure is that I must be gaining muscle. I’m definitely stronger; I can both do things I couldn’t do in May and tolerate things (like standing on my feet for 2 days in a row) that I couldn’t tolerate in May. 

And I’ve become 100% convinced through my sample size of 1 that exercise does NOT peel weight off a body (which makes sense when you think about it—the physical process that builds up muscle tissue is completely separate from the one that breaks down fat tissue. They’re only related in the sense that fat can provide energy for movement, but so can the carbs I just ate, so one doesn’t even directly lead to the other. Plus, it takes like an hour of running to burn of the “energy” in one Oreo, so trying to outrun one’s eating habits is kind of crazy).

But, hey, if people think that I look better despite my non-weightloss, I’ll take it. I can’t see the difference, but I can feel it. So bring on the compliments, and I’ll keep deflecting them like a pro.

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